My boyfriend believes using sex toys is cheating. Does anyone agree with him?

My boyfriend believes using sex toys is cheating. Does anyone agree with him?

My boyfriend [23M] believes that me [20 F] using dildos counts as cheating because his ex was pissed about him using a pocket pussy a few years back said “ the use of sex toys involved using up the energy that is supposed to be used for your partner” and he still agrees lol. That woman is still stalking him after two years of them being broken up so if I were him I wouldn’t even be listening to something ridiculous that she said more than two years ago. He really wants me to cancel the orders for a dildo and a vibrator but I’m not giving them back cause I’m grown and I can do whatever I want to do. Besides, he doesn’t even spend that much time with me as it is and he’s joining the army in a year so I’m not gonna be able to see him forreal. I’d rather use an inanimate object than to cheat on him. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not cheating on him whether I have the toys or not because cheating is honestly not in my nature and I have self control because I can go a long time without sex or masterbating. It’s just that sometimes a woman has needs, ya know? I’m not canceling the delivery of the sex toys because as much as he wants to, he’s not gonna control me. A question for the public: Does anyone else believe that the use of sex toys counts as cheating?

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